of Britannica is based around the protagonist,
Brittney, who isn’t coping with her parents' separation. When her
introduces the children to his new girlfriend, Brittney and her older
Hunter, do not cope well and the realisation that their parents are
getting a divorce hits them. This problem and Brittney's angst, is what
plunges Brittney into the Land
In 2015, the Australian Bureau of Statistics reported that 48,517 divorces were granted in Australia - an increase from the previous year. This means many children are being affected. One statistic I read said, 1 in 5 children under the age of 20 years, are affected. http://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/abs@.nsf/mf/3310.0
A marriage breakdown affects children in a variety of ways. Some cope but others can be adversely affected.
separation is said to be more important in
children's lives than the legal divorce. The breakdown of the marriage
and subsequent adjustments such as custody and future step-parents
The level of income in a household before parents separate
appears to have significant and long-lasting effects on some aspects of
children's lives. Higher household income appears to be associated with higher
self-esteem in children and a better relationship between siblings. https://aifs.gov.au/publications/family-matters/issue-30/divorce-change-and-children
Children's psychological reactions to their parents' divorce
vary in degree dependent on three factors: (1) the quality of their
relationship with each of their parents before the separation,
intensity and duration of the parental conflict, and
(3) the parents' ability
to focus on the needs of children in their divorce.
Behaviours that are displayed are caused by the child trying to feel secure. Some typical reactions of children are:
c) Preoccupation with information
d) Anger and hostility
g) Preoccupation with reconciliation
h) Self-blame and guilt
i) Acting out
In Land of Britannica, we see Brittney experiencing a few of these reactions. She is in denial, she is angry, and wants her parents to get back together and she blames her own behaviour for the separation of her parents, even though she knew Dad left because he hurt Mum.
Some signs of stress in children affected by family breakdowns are:
1) Infants and toddlers:
A. Regression in terms of sleeping, toilet training or eating; slowing down in the mastery of new skills
B. Sleep disturbances (difficulty going to sleep; frequent waking)
C. Difficulty leaving parent; climginess
D. General crankiness, temper tantrums, crying
2) 3-5 Years
A. Regression; returning to security blankets and discarded toys, lapses in toilet training, thumb sucking
B. Immature grasp of what has happened; bewildered; making up fantasy stories
C. Blaming themselves and feeling guilty
D. Bedtime anxiety; fitful/fretful sleep; frequent waking
E. Fear of being abandoned by both parents; clinginess
F Greater irritability, aggression, temper tantrums
3) 6 - 8 Years
A. Pervasive sadness; feeling abandoned and rejected
B. Crying and sobbing
C. Afraid of their worst fears coming true
D. Reconciliation fantasies
E. Loyalty conflicts; feeling physically torn apart
F. Problems with impulse control; disorganised behaviour.
4) 9 - 12 Years
A. Able to see family disruption clearly; try to bring order to situation
B. Fear of loneliness
C. Intense anger at the parent they blame for causing the divorce
D. Physical complaints; headaches and stomach aches
E. May become overactive to avoid thinking about the divorce
F/ Feel ashamed of what's happening in their family; feel they are different from other children
A. Fear of being isolated and lonely
B. Experience parents as leaving them; feel parents are not available to them
C. Feel hurried to achieve independence
D. Feel in competition with parents
E. Worry about their own future loves and marriage; preoccupied with the survival of relationships
F. Discomfort with a parent's dating and sexuality
G. Chronic fatigue; difficulty concentrating
H. Mourn the loss of the family of their childhood
Kathleen O'Connell Corcoran
who are in the midst of a separation and an impeding divorce will often
go through a cycle of grief or mourning. It is much like a death in the
family. Each child will experience the grief in their own way. There
are five steps in the grief cycle. Sometimes the steps are
steep, sometimes steps are repeated, and sometimes a child may take
longer on one step than others.
Step One: Shock and Denial Stage
children have a family life that to them is normal, even if there is
conflict. As the family moves from ormal functioning through divorce or
separation the children first move into a shock and denial stage. They
have to work to understand the divorce and what is gong to happen as a
result of the divorce. Parents can help by explaining the reality of the
divorce and emphasising that some things will not change - such as the
love for their child and that the parent will be there for the child
Step Two: Anger Stage
the children move into a stage of anger. In this stage parents need to
provide support and be there for the children, but understand that thi
is just part of the grief cycle. Children need time to work through
their anger and guilt. They will sometimes pick one parent to be mad at
and not at the other parent This is normal. Let them know that the
parent understands they are angry and continue letting the child know
they are loved.
Step Three: Depression Stage
the children sense that their life is falling apart, they may withdraw
and feel sad and detached from their family and friends. The parent
needs to differentiate between sadness and depression. If the parent is
concerned that the child is truggling they may need to seek professional
Step Four: Dialogue & Bargaining Stage
the children move into the dialogue and bargaining phase, they will try
to get the family back together. They will fantasise bout
reconciliation and will promise to be good if they parents will just
reconsider. They may even devise ways to get their parents together such
as being sick or getting into trouble at school. This is thier way of
working through the guilt of feeling that they were the reason for the
divorce or separation. The parent needs to remind them that they did not
break up the family, and it is not likely that they can get the familly
back together. This too is part of accepting the permanence of the
Step Five: Acceptance Stage
the acceptance stage means that the child has adjusted to the reality
and permanence of the divorce and separation. It may also mean,
especially for older children, they are ready to take a chance on love.
The entire grief process is one of dealing with loss and requires that
children overcome the sense of rejection, humiliation, feeling unloved,
and powerlessness that they feel.
During this process the parents need to encourage the child to maintain their normal schedule and activities.
In the story, Brittney is plunged into the fantasy world, Land of Britannica. It is in this world that she travels through the grief cycle. Each of the characters she rescue, and then the acceptance parcel, are representative of each stage.
The philosopher Aristotle said, “In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. They keep the young out of mischief; they comfort and aid the old in their weakness, and they incite those in the prime of life to noble deeds.”
For children, making friends is a vital part of growing up and an essential part of their social and emotional development. Attributes such as social competence, altruism, self-esteem and self-confidence have all been found to be positively correlated to having friends. Studies have found that friendships enable children to learn more about themselves and develop their own identity. And, as children mature, friends are able to help reduce stress and navigate challenging developmental experiences, especially during teenage years.
Friendships develop life skills that will increase a child's wisdom, confidence and self-esteem.
A good friend is someone who has your best interests at heart and they have their friend's back. A friend provides someone to communicate concerns, dreams and fears with. This allows a child to feel less alone and isolated.
The opportunity to develop leadership skills can increase as children play with other children. They are also provided with opportunities to make decisions. Imagination skills are developed.
Having a variety of friends enables a child to know how other families operate and this will help them to cope with changes in their situation, particularly if one of their friends has experienced this.
Courage is an essential ingredient in growing up. It's what propels us to each new milestones - from learning to walk to learning maths - even though the effort seems hard or painful. Courage can be physical, like jumping from a diving board, or moral, like doing the right thing in the face of possible ridicule.
Courage can be built by:
Having courage means that children will be brave as they meet new experiences, difficult situation and/or dangerous encounters. Also courage may involve being firm because of strong moral convictions In either case, there may be feelings of fear, anxiety or apprehension that must be dealt with.
As Brittney travels through the Land of Britannica she continually shows courage to face obstacles. Sometimes these obstacles are animals, the queen's guards, Storm Queen herself, and at other times she shows courage in the face of problems that she must solve to be able to rescue the Odinarians and Terry.
When Brittney enters the Land of Britannica and begins her travels, she is very scared and apprehensive. As she overcomes more and more obstacles, her symptoms of stress (feeling sick, sweats, shivers up and down her spine, shaking etc) lessen and at the end of the story Brittney is self-confident, strong and sure of herself. She is able to face the unknown and due to her courage she saves the land and its people.
In the Land of Britannica, Brittney is transformed into a superhero. Carly-Anna initially dresses her in black leggings, a long sleeved green top with a silver crown motif, and a silver studded belt with a silver satin bag attached to it, and black boots. Her hair flew up into a bun. Along her journey, Brittney acquires a range of items which give her extra powers to fight her enemies. These are:
With Brittney's inner-strength and determination to save the cracked heart from falling out of the sky, combined with her added powers, she is able to fulfil her destiny.